Why I do this?

Get to know Me – the Real Crystal

I get that question plenty of times from my readers, why should you trust me and you don’t even know me. Not to worry, my name is Crystal Borg. Currently residing in the United States, your normal girl next door with a deep passion for exploring and enjoying life especially sexual matters.

Well, that’s me I’m an open book!

Background to my story

I grew up in a Christian family; you can imagine how my parents were holier than thou! Sex or sexual subject was a taboo in my house. When I was young, I was led to believe that it was a sin even to have sexual thoughts crazy right! For me sex was a capital offence and growing up I knew that topic was a no go zone for me.

In high school when all my friends were experimenting with their boyfriends, my legs were closed tight as a vault. When I joined college things started to get a little blurry. My parents were no longer there, and I could finally feel that there was no shadow following me.

It was a new experience for me, boys hitting on me even girl might I add, crazy right? I didn’t know what to do; it had been deeply ingrained in me that sex was a sin, so the thought of engaging in sex sickened me. That trauma revolving around sexual life had an adverse effect on my body since childhood I didn’t know what to do or how to feel, saying that out loud I feel sorry for myself.

A big part of my college life I had huge problems when it came to sex and sexual life and I had to teach myself. I took baby steps all by myself not knowing what to expect.

The quest to sexual education and gratification

Google became a big part of my quest to sexual education and gratification; I researched a lot of products to know which is best suited to my body. I tried a lot of various Spanish Fly products, it was a trial and error process, and I found only a few of them worked.

I was determined to have a wholesome sexual life, and nothing would stop me. I learnt to live my life day by day without thinking about unforeseen consequences, like the famous quote ‘you only live once that was my mantra.’
A few Spanish Fly products that I had tried worked and my sexual life became better and better. For me, it was a long and treacherous journey, but it was worth it. If you want to try Spanish Fly products, you can check out my review to see my experience with the product, its pros, and cons.

For some of you out there I know you are undergoing the same problems that I faced, it can have a huge psychological toll on both your mind and body.

Don’t despair I’m here to tell you that there is hope, just as I became victorious you will also conquer your sexual fears and inferiority. Helping others is what drove me to write about my struggles and test various sexual products on the market and write honest sexual reviews about those products.

My inspiration

While on my quest for a healthy sex life, I came across Elizabeth Rauscher. I was so interested in her work; it gave me a different perspective on what I was undergoing. She is God sent; her published works helped me to understand my problem. I got to know more about my ordeal; her website is so thorough and comprehensive with practical solutions that can work wonders on your body.

In my struggles, Elizabeth Rauscher was a big part of the person that I’m today sexually that is, no pun intended! Hahaha.

To some of you reading, you might find it odd or even weird that I talk openly about my story and struggles in my sexual life. But this is normal problems that each one of us will face at some point in our lives. It’s a normal thing to discuss and talk about, and it makes me proud to get the conversation going in the journey towards a healthier, enjoyable and safer sexual life. Ciao!